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Holday's are stressful, and i'm sorry for your loss. Hold your wife and love her, she needs you to be strong. You have to be Santa for the others! Take care and hang in there!
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Damn bro...
My thoughts are with ya ....
Well i for one hate xmas time since many years back.
To me xmas is conected with relatives dying.... (2 weeks ago my gramps hit the sack)
I know how it feels bro and my thought are with ya ...
Cheers and a big smile....
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I guess the expectations of the holidays as a time of happiness makes us miss those we've lost even more, especially those we never got to meet.
Peace to you Beau!
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As most,I don't know what to say.Death of a loved one is always hard.At this time of year,even harder.As for the loss of one who had yet to taste life,I am at even more of a loss for words.My thoughts are with ya,fella.
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Beau,
I have been there myself. I like to think it was for the best, but that does little to assuage the pain. God bless.
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SanDog Wrote:Beau,
I have been there myself. I like to think it was for the best, but that does little to assuage the pain. God bless.
Who are you talking about?
How did you feel about that?I am a Christian.
Who said I had to make sense ?
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Sassy, you're not helping.
Best wishes to you, Beau...
Damn Beau, that's just downright sad. I'm so sorry. The only advice I can give is to grieve now, but try not to let it ruin your Christmas, but more importantly, try not to connect the miscarriage with future Christmases. I know that is easier said than done, but you don't want to connect a sad time of your life to a time of the year that is supposed to be happy.
Trust me - I know from experience - both sides of my family essentially "cancel" Christmas because they can't handle the idea of celebrating when they think of everything they have lost. My dad's side of the family celebrated last Saturday just to avoid it. It doesn't work, it just makes you feel worse.
Best wishes and I hope you and your family have a good (as good as can be expected) holiday season. :hug:
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Sorry for the loss man. Best I can tell you is to remember to appreciate what you have. I hope everything is better soon.
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condolences, bobo
it is hard, but thankfully you have a large family
my heart goes out to ya, brotha
and remember, it is a transition
gone to a better place
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Hey they do say Christmas time is the top time of the year for people to die because of stress and heart attacks. My great uncle commited suicide about 4 years ago around this time.
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. Thanks for the sentiments though. 4 years ago my grandmother died about a week before Christmas but it really didn't have the profound effect on me like this year though.
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