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Originally posted by Velvet@Sep 23 2004, 02:54 PM
The child should be told as its it s right to know .

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This leads to an interesting question. Bill should have some good input here. Let's assume a traditional adoption. When is a "good time" to tell the child it is adopted? Do you always let it be known, so there is no defining moment when you have to say "you are adopted"? On the other hand, if you tell the child from birth (basically) it is adopted are you undermining your relationship with it in some way?

Thoughts?