[Banana]

CLARIFICATION
********************************************************************Ask the banana a *specific* question if you want advice. If you ask me why you are so fucked up, I don't know the answer, and I will just bullshit.

[CodeWarrior]

Is "Why am I always sad or angry?" too general?

[Banana]

Originally posted by Alienware@Jul 22 2004, 10:50 PM
Is "Why am I always sad or angry?" too general?

No.

[CodeWarrior]

Then answer it

[Kunai]

Eat some more pills, pillhead.

[Banana]

Originally posted by Alienware@Jul 22 2004, 10:58 PM
Then answer it

Your question is "why am I always sad or angry" right? These types of moods start for very innocent reasons. Maybe a situational event, maybe boredom, maybe nothing at all. But, over time, if you have done nothing to cope, it becomes a vicious circle. You are sad, so you are unproductive, which leads to increased sadness or anger, etc. I know a person who feels like you.....(it's not me) and she perpetually makes herself angrier/more sad by ruminating and doing nothing functional to improve her circumstances. Exercise helps. But, at a basic level, you have to change the way you think. You can't change the way you feel - emotions are controlled by our perceptions.....until you change the way you perceive things, you will not change the way you feel. IF you can't do it alone, you would likely benefit from counselling.

[TyrionXavier]

Here ya go 'nana;

Why does Mad_Hatter constantly insult other users of the Train, while constantly flirting with the female users?

[mad_hatter]

Why does Ty have such a hard-on for me? I'm beginning to think he might not like me

[Banana]

Originally posted by TyrionXavier@Jul 23 2004, 11:52 AM
Here ya go 'nana;

Why does Mad_Hatter constantly insult other users of the Train, while constantly flirting with the female users?

Because it's fun, the females respond to him and joke back. Tell me who here doesn't insult other members AS A JOKE? ClayRock took a big beating from TF420, and learned how to joke back (albeit, not very well :lol. You should to learn to dish it out Ty. If you can't, ignore him. I could do a poll, and I think it would point out that most people here find MH quite entertaining. But, I won't. You can if you are concerned about it. But, he's just having fun. That's my final answer.

[MarkyGman]

Originally posted by banana@Jul 23 2004, 01:58 PM
That's my final answer.

that line was cool about 5 years ago.


Welcome to 2004 Banana ..... hope you enjoy your stay.

[TyrionXavier]

When is enough, enough? When does the joke stop being funny?

[Banana]

Originally posted by TyrionXavier@Jul 23 2004, 12:01 PM
When is enough, enough?  When does the joke stop being funny?

When people stop laughing. I think you are the only one not amused. I could be wrong, but I don't think so. *****JOKE ALERT******** It would be funny if you just admitted you were in love with him, like he suggested.

[TyrionXavier]

but.. but.. I am in love with him.. why do you think his smartass comments hurt me so? I just want it to stop

[Devious]

I love him.. just sayin'

[Banana]

Originally posted by MarkyGman+Jul 23 2004, 12:01 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(MarkyGman @ Jul 23 2004, 12:01 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-banana@Jul 23 2004, 01:58 PM
That's my final answer.

that line was cool about 5 years ago.


Welcome to 2004 Banana ..... hope you enjoy your stay. [/b][/quote]
Very interesting problem, Mark. I think you would beneift from this



:llma: Just kidding.

[Banana]

Originally posted by TyrionXavier@Jul 23 2004, 12:04 PM
but.. but.. I am in love with him.. why do you think his smartass comments hurt me so?&nbsp; I just want it to stop

:praise: He is cured.

[APB]

Banana will I be rich and powerful one day.....don't answer that. I already know........





Not gonna happen

[TyrionXavier]

I was trying to keep it a secret :$

[mad_hatter]

**files a restraining order**



thanks banana. Now who am I going to pick on :rant:

[Banana]

Originally posted by APB@Jul 23 2004, 12:07 PM
Banana will I be rich and powerful one day.....don't answer that. I already know........





Not gonna happen

Just for clarification...I am a psychologist and possibly a psychopath, but not a psychic.
:lmao: