[Banana]

This is not an "ask me anything" thread. It's an advice thread. I work in psychology, and I have the week off, so ask away.

[ClayRock]

here's a starter.

who do you think is the sickest fuck on this site?

[mad_hatter]

ooooh oooh pick me!! pick ME!!!!

[Banana]

Originally posted by ClayRock@Jul 22 2004, 01:47 PM
here's a starter.

who do you think is the sickest fuck on this site?

Alright, well my personal opinion is not advice, but psychologically speaking, the most disturbed is likely UDC. :lol: My personal opinion is different.

[TyrionXavier]

What do you think I should do to help get over the death of my mom?

[Banana]

Originally posted by TyrionXavier@Jul 22 2004, 01:51 PM
What do you think I should do to help get over the death of my mom?

OK, the banana was prepared to make jokes, but this is serious.
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In all seriousness, the banana lost her mother a couple years back as well. This left the banana and her husbund (a plantain) with a 14 year old sister to raise. This was a difficult situation that initally seemed to have no hope. Three years later, this is what I have learned:
- do not allow yourself to go through the "what if's." Once you go down that hill, it's a long, lonely and difficult road to climb. Additionally, you do not have the power to change anything that happened and you will exhaust yourself trying to do so.
- don't ever believe that grief lessens over time. It does not. Your ability to cope improves over time. It WILL make you stronger. It WILL make you look at life differently.
- not all things happen for a reason, but try every day to be thankful for what her passing has taught you. There are lessons there - they are easier to see as time passes.

Hope this helps...... :hug:

[leucetios]

I don't have any degrees, Ty. But I will answer anyway: allow yourself to greive. Dont' hold it in, don't try to be strong. Feel what you're feeling. It took me five years to actually come to terms with my father dying, and to let go of the guilt I had around his death. I don't even know why there was guilt, he had a heart attack ]



Sorry for your loss

[CJ34]

Originally posted by leucetios@Jul 22 2004, 08:59 PM
I don't have any degrees, Ty.  But I will answer anyway: allow yourself to greive.  Dont' hold it in, don't try to be strong.  Feel what you're feeling.  It took me five years to actually come to terms with my father dying, and to let go of the guilt I had around his death.  I don't even know why there was guilt, he had a heart attack   ]



Sorry for your loss

This is exactly what I was gonna say. Leu is dead on. You have to let yourself grieve and work through it. It is a process that cannot be ignored. You have to grieve, so you can either do it now or later, but it won't go away on its own. I learned this after two different losses.. one I didn't grieve right away, the other I did. The latter was easier.

Good luck TX. Sorry for your loss. It will get better.

[TyrionXavier]

It's been a couple years (another thread by me, something like "Poem - it runs in the family" or something, the eulogy and some beautiful art from my brother are within).. but lately I've just been really down about it.. dunno why.

[Banana]

Originally posted by TyrionXavier@Jul 22 2004, 02:21 PM
It's been a couple years (another thread by me, something like "Poem - it runs in the family" or something, the eulogy and some beautiful art from my brother are within).. but lately I've just been really down about it.. dunno why.

uhh, can I ask how she died? You can PM me if you don't feel comfortable talking about it here.

[TyrionXavier]

http://www.insanetrain.com/index.php?showtopic=7825

Click there. It'll tell you.

[leeman]

Psyco corner right ...


Is there something wrong with me when i constantly figures an orgy involving a banana 2 sets of bouncin/moving boobs ...... and a web cam....?

[leucetios]

I'm not touching that one, literally or figureatively

[Banana]

Originally posted by leeman@Jul 22 2004, 02:32 PM
Psyco corner right ...


Is there something wrong with me when i constantly figures an orgy involving a banana 2 sets of bouncin/moving boobs ...... and a web cam....?

No. Unless your fantasy also involves a West Coast Chopper symbol and an Asian girl kicking a Pepsi can around. In that case, you are beyond help. Otherwise, you're normal and straight, Leeman! Jerk it in celebration!

[leeman]

Originally posted by banana+Jul 22 2004, 10:40 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(banana @ Jul 22 2004, 10:40 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-leeman@Jul 22 2004, 02:32 PM
Psyco corner right ...


Is there something wrong with me when i constantly figures an orgy involving a banana 2 sets of bouncin/moving boobs ...... and a web cam....?

No. Unless your fantasy also involves a West Coast Chopper symbol and an Asian girl kicking a Pepsi can around. In that case, you are beyond help. Otherwise, you're normal and straight, Leeman! Jerk it in celebration! [/b][/quote]
Damn ... the shopper is out.


But an asian girl rubbin my body in nice oils and bringing me beers is in .......

[Banana]

Originally posted by leeman+Jul 22 2004, 02:41 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(leeman @ Jul 22 2004, 02:41 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by banana@Jul 22 2004, 10:40 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-leeman@Jul 22 2004, 02:32 PM
[b] Psyco corner right ...


Is there something wrong with me when i constantly figures an orgy involving a banana 2 sets of bouncin/moving boobs ...... and a web cam....?

No. Unless your fantasy also involves a West Coast Chopper symbol and an Asian girl kicking a Pepsi can around. In that case, you are beyond help. Otherwise, you're normal and straight, Leeman! Jerk it in celebration! [/b]

Damn ... the shopper is out.


But an asian girl rubbin my body in nice oils and bringing me beers is in ....... [/b][/quote]
Just to clarify....Is the asian girl kicking A PEPSI CAN around????

[leeman]

Originally posted by banana@Jul 22 2004, 10:46 PM

Just to clarify....Is the asian girl kicking A PEPSI CAN around????

Uhmmm hang .....




















No no pepsi can involved ....

[Banana]

Oh thank the lord. I was about to leave this site foreva!

BTW, can you pin this for a few days....I don't plan on doing any real work. Thanks!

[VitaminE]

My butt feels suprizingly well today.

[Banana]

Originally posted by VitaminE@Jul 22 2004, 03:08 PM
My butt feels suprizingly well today.

Well then, I guess you don't need advice.