[lad]

after i get married i want to start having affairs and getting all secretive

am i normal??

[Banana]

Originally posted by britishlad@Jul 26 2004, 11:52 AM
after i get married i want to start having affairs and getting all secretive

am i normal??

Entirely. Plus, you can only have affairs when you are married. Why deprive yourself of that experience? Monogamy is gay and over-rated.

[lad]

Originally posted by banana+Jul 26 2004, 07:12 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(banana @ Jul 26 2004, 07:12 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-britishlad@Jul 26 2004, 11:52 AM
after i get married i want to start having affairs and getting all secretive

am i normal??

Entirely. Plus, you can only have affairs when you are married. Why deprive yourself of that experience? Monogamy is gay and over-rated.[/b][/quote]
Thanx doc, i shall use this in my defence when i am caught :ph34r:

[MarkyGman]

Ok Doc,



So this morning the phone rings......its my Mother....she asks for me to find a monitor and webcam and whatnot for my younger sis who is going away for school, she also wants me to format her computer.

I live 2.5 hours away from them and between me and my girlfriend we have 1 car...and my gf works 6 days a week and is on afternoons the next 2 weeks 3pm-11pm.

My mother says I should come down and format my sisters computer, in the next 2 weeks before she goes away to school. So i told her thats pretty hard why doesn't she come down with the PC or my sister come down (both have never visited me in 4 years here).

She then tells me that they are both too busy to do so....which i know isn't true because my sister works part time, and my mother has the summer off (Teachers Aid). I asked her what she was doing today with the car and instead of giving me a legit answer she said that she "was not looking for an argument with me" and "i thought i could count on you for a favor". This is the type of crap that caused me to go to another town for school in the first place. By this time i was so mad i just said goodbye Mom i'll see what i can do, and hung up.

My girlfriend sides with me supporting the fact that they never come to see us, and they have 2 cars and plenty of time to drive the 2 hours.

I would appreciate a third oppinion....for some reason i feel guilty about not going out of my way to help them.
Should I?

[Banana]

Banana is familiar with this problem. My mother used to be the same way. Twice in five years she came to where I lived to visit me, and then made me feel guilty when I could not go to visit her every weekend.

Don't feel guilty. Your mother needs to realize that you have your own life and your own priorities. If she cannot make a trip to see you as her priority, why should you have to bear the burden of guilt? Mothers have a way of making their children feel as though they owe them something for the rest of their lives. You did what you should have done. Your mother needs to realize you are an adult and you will make your own decisions. If it's that important, she can figure out a way to get to where you are. If you bow to her know, she'll know she has you feeding out of her hand, and do you want that? Don't let her get the best of you....not in this situation -- you are doing a favor, they need to make an effort too.

[MarkyGman]

thanks for the reassurance.....now if only my stupid conscience would shut the hell up i'd be all set.

[Devious]

I have a fetish for banana's. Do you think you could help me? What is wrong?

[Banana]

Originally posted by devious@Jul 26 2004, 05:52 PM
I have a fetish for banana's. Do you think you could help me? What is wrong?

It depends what you do with bananas.....if you do anything dirty with them (apart from shove them up your ass), send me some pics. Then I can help you.

[Devious]

I like to eat them.. I eat them everyday..

[Banana]

Originally posted by devious@Jul 26 2004, 05:57 PM
I like to eat them.. I eat them everyday..

Well, that's not a fetish per se ....... do you eat bananas all day?

[Banana]

Ok, I'm locking this now. :o I'll still answer your questions, just start a thread.