i need some advice people... recently at work there is this middle age married man who keeps on hitting on me at first i thought he was just teasing but i found out that now he actually means what he says to me. when other people arent around he be saying stuff like he wants me to be his mistress and do stuff together if you know what i mean. he also tells me that i would gain a lot cause he would help me out whenever im in need of something. gosh i have never been in this kinda situation and pretty much stunned that he would want me as a mistress.. tell me guys what should i do......
my advice:
never screw with married/engaged people....
imagine you being the wife of this guy....
parwell
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Lovely, check the thread that Stoney started a while ago (probably on the 3rd page or so) about the same thing. There's some pretty good advice there.
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Love,
dont worry and get guilty
just try to forget about it/him and enjoy time with your friends.
this guy does not worth it!
If you decide to do it you will hurt yourself and others badly!!!
parwell
lovely,
there is no good way for that type of situation to turn out. If you want to move on, he will be jealous. If his wife finds out it's a problem. If he wants to move on, you still have to work with him. The longer you stay involved with him, the less chance you have of finding someone to settle down with. No good way for it to turn out, unless you love him and he leaves his wife for you, then you will be burdened with the guilt of breaking apart his marriage.
Also you must consider this, he made a vow to his wife that he has no apparent problem breaking. What kind of man will he be towards you, whom he only wants as a mistress. He is perfectly fine lying and cheating on his wife, I don't think he would have too much respect for a mistress.
bigfish
Well I reckon it bout time for me to take a trip to Cali and smash some fucksticks teeth out of his mouth. :|
Lovely noi you need to speak to your office manager about this man . He has no right to be saying these things to you at all . Flirting or no flirting hes a senior where you work and shouldnt be saying anything like that to other staff .You are probably not the only women hes done it to so maybe you should check with a few others as well and see whats happened .The guy is just a slease .
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