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Devious Wrote:I think marriage is great.. I love my wife. We've been together for 6 years and never had a fight.
sounds like crap to me
i got married at 21
it's a good thing i did it then cause she died when we were both 29
so we got about ten years to evolve
no regrets about getting married, the birth of my child ranks as #1 high in a life crowded with tremendous events
I realise that I have a past to break with--an accumulation of inertia, wrong, foolishness, rot, junk. A great need of clarification, of mindfulness, or rather, of no mind. A need to return to genuine practice, right effort. Need to push on the great doubt. Need for the spirit. Hang on to the clear light.
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Love and happiness...
something that can make you do wrong, make you do right...
Love...
Love and happiness
Wait a minute...
something's going wrong
someone's on the phone
three o'clock in the morning
talkin' about how she can make it right
well,
happiness is when you really feel good with somebody
nothing wrong with being in one with someone
oh, baby, love and happiness
love and happiness...
love and happiness...
Love and happiness
You be good to me
I'll be good to you
we'll be together
we'll see each other
walk away with victory
oh baby,
love and happiness...
love and happiness...
Make you do right... love'll make you do wrong...
make you come home early...
make you stay out all night long...
the power of love...
wait a minute,
let me tell you...
the power of love...
make you do right... love'll make you do wrong...
make you want to dance...
love and happiness...
love and happiness...
love is... wait a minute... love is...
walkin' together...
talkin' together...
say it again...
say it together...
Mmmm....
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4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
I almost got married at 22 (not to Jimmy). Glad that one didn't work out. Jimmy was 28 and I was 27 when we got married. We had been dating 3.5 years.
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Please forgive me for my cynicism but I will never marry again. I'm not sorry I did, but never again.
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Devious Wrote:Swear to god.. We have never fought once. I KNOW, It's seems crazy.
We just have a great relationship.
no, she just lets you get away with murder
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good on ya, mate
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I realise that I have a past to break with--an accumulation of inertia, wrong, foolishness, rot, junk. A great need of clarification, of mindfulness, or rather, of no mind. A need to return to genuine practice, right effort. Need to push on the great doubt. Need for the spirit. Hang on to the clear light.
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Not married. Never been married. Act like too much of a fuck-up to be married.
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you dont "act" like a fuck-up, hun
Minorthreat wishes
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Thought I found the girl to marry when I was younger. Thank God I never did go through with it though. I would have been miserable.
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Ditto. Dated a guy for 5 years.. I would have probably been murdered if i had married him... Dated allen for 2 + years. we are still good friends.. been broken up for two.. i was kicking myself for breaking up with him.. but, i started feeling more for him like he was a bud, instead of a boyfriend..
I tried and tried to get that "feeling" back.. because he is a wonderful person.. but i didnt....can control your head, not your heart..
I met Jeremy, and it was instantaneous.. like we both got run over with a truck.. at the same time.. I kept saying.."there has got to be a reason I'm not feeling this way for Allen anymore.. " and sure enough.. it took two years, but I found out why...
Allen and I even went and looked at rings..
I hated that it didn't work out with him, but I met my match. I dont care that I am 27 and not married.. yeah, I would like to be, but not just for the sake of being married..
We have talked about getting married this winter or next spring.. looks like next spring..
Minorthreat wishes