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needs some advice...
#1

i need some advice people... recently at work there is this middle age married man who keeps on hitting on me at first i thought he was just teasing but i found out that now he actually means what he says to me. when other people arent around he be saying stuff like he wants me to be his mistress and do stuff together if you know what i mean. he also tells me that i would gain a lot cause he would help me out whenever im in need of something. gosh i have never been in this kinda situation and pretty much stunned that he would want me as a mistress.. tell me guys what should i do......
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#2

my advice:

never screw with married/engaged people....

imagine you being the wife of this guy....



parwell
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#3

[Mr. Rogers Voice] Can you say 'Sexual Harassment Lawsuit' children? I knew you could.. [/Mr. Rogers Voice]
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#4

Quote:Originally posted by parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:31 AM
my advice:

never screw with married/engaged people....

imagine you being the wife of this guy....



parwell
hmm that is exactly what i told him and he told me that me and him arent stupid its not like she would ever find out kinda stuff...
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#5

Quote:Originally posted by darkchyld@Mar 22 2004, 10:32 AM
[Mr. Rogers Voice] Can you say 'Sexual Harassment Lawsuit' children?  I knew you could.. [/Mr. Rogers Voice]
i know its sexual harassment big time but i wouldnt do anything about it... i shouldve never flirted around now things are serious.....
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#6

Quote:Originally posted by lovelynoi+Mar 22 2004, 07:33 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(lovelynoi @ Mar 22 2004, 07:33 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:31 AM
my advice:

never screw with married/engaged people....

imagine you being the wife of this guy....



parwell
hmm that is exactly what i told him and he told me that me and him arent stupid its not like she would ever find out kinda stuff... [/b][/quote]
well typical answer from a bloke who just want to 'shag' you.

Trust me, I'm a guy!

What is the age difference between you and him?

parwell
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#7

Quote:Originally posted by parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:40 AM




well typical answer from a bloke who just want to 'shag' you.

Trust me, I'm a guy!

What is the age difference between you and him?

parwell
15 years apart i feel so uncomfortable around that guy now
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#8

Quote:Originally posted by lovelynoi+Mar 22 2004, 07:41 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(lovelynoi @ Mar 22 2004, 07:41 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:40 AM




well typical answer from a bloke who just want to 'shag' you.

Trust me, I'm a guy!

What is the age difference between you and him?

parwell
15 years apart i feel so uncomfortable around that guy now [/b][/quote]
don't feel guilty....

he is the one guilty...

just be careful, him not screwing your work or saying nasty things about you after that.

parwell
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#9

Lovely, check the thread that Stoney started a while ago (probably on the 3rd page or so) about the same thing. There's some pretty good advice there.

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#10

Quote:Originally posted by parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:43 AM

don't feel guilty....

he is the one guilty...

just be careful, him not screwing your work or saying nasty things about you after that.

parwell
he told me that he wouldnt do shit like that.... hes not like someother people there.... they're also some other guys at work who are married and tell him stories bout mistresses and crap like that ... i dont know what to say to him
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#11

Quote:Originally posted by TomFoolery_420@Mar 22 2004, 10:45 AM
Lovely, check the thread that Stoney started a while ago (probably on the 3rd page or so) about the same thing.&nbsp; There's some pretty good advice there.
hers was bit different wasnt story how she liked the married man or something like that? i dont think they flirted around with her or came straight forward asking if i could be involved with him....
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#12

Love,

dont worry and get guilty

just try to forget about it/him and enjoy time with your friends.

this guy does not worth it!

If you decide to do it you will hurt yourself and others badly!!!

parwell
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#13

Quote:Originally posted by parwell@Mar 22 2004, 10:52 AM
Love,

dont worry and get guilty

just try to forget about it/him and enjoy time with your friends.

this guy does not worth it!

If you decide to do it you will hurt yourself and others badly!!!

parwell
yea i dont want to go through with it.... its so uncomfortable now though
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#14

lovely,

there is no good way for that type of situation to turn out. If you want to move on, he will be jealous. If his wife finds out it's a problem. If he wants to move on, you still have to work with him. The longer you stay involved with him, the less chance you have of finding someone to settle down with. No good way for it to turn out, unless you love him and he leaves his wife for you, then you will be burdened with the guilt of breaking apart his marriage.

Also you must consider this, he made a vow to his wife that he has no apparent problem breaking. What kind of man will he be towards you, whom he only wants as a mistress. He is perfectly fine lying and cheating on his wife, I don't think he would have too much respect for a mistress.

bigfish
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#15

Quote:Originally posted by bigfish9938@Mar 22 2004, 11:20 AM
lovely,

there is no good way for that type of situation to turn out. If you want to move on, he will be jealous. If his wife finds out it's a problem. If he wants to move on, you still have to work with him. The longer you stay involved with him, the less chance you have of finding someone to settle down with. No good way for it to turn out, unless you love him and he leaves his wife for you, then you will be burdened with the guilt of breaking apart his marriage.

Also you must consider this, he made a vow to his wife that he has no apparent problem breaking. What kind of man will he be towards you, whom he only wants as a mistress. He is perfectly fine lying and cheating on his wife, I don't think he would have too much respect for a mistress.

bigfish
thx for the advice Smile its helpful
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#16

Well I reckon it bout time for me to take a trip to Cali and smash some fucksticks teeth out of his mouth. :|
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#17

Lovely noi you need to speak to your office manager about this man . He has no right to be saying these things to you at all . Flirting or no flirting hes a senior where you work and shouldnt be saying anything like that to other staff .You are probably not the only women hes done it to so maybe you should check with a few others as well and see whats happened .The guy is just a slease .
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#18

Quote:Originally posted by Beaucephus@Mar 22 2004, 08:57 PM
Well I reckon it bout time for me to take a trip to Cali and smash some fucksticks teeth out of his mouth.&nbsp; :|
I'm with beau on this fucker!!!

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Quote:Originally posted by jwnewman+Mar 22 2004, 03:17 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jwnewman @ Mar 22 2004, 03:17 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-Beaucephus@Mar 22 2004, 08:57 PM
Well I reckon it bout time for me to take a trip to Cali and smash some fucksticks teeth out of his mouth.&nbsp; :|
I'm with beau on this fucker!!! [/b][/quote]
Count me in.

LAWSUIT LIKE HELL!!! But, write everything down first. <_<
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#20

Document it...
Record it...
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