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Jimmy Wrote:Yeah, so am I gonna nail Apple or what?
You'll have to check with her on that. Her BF seems pretty open minded. And he won't propose, so she's totally fair game.
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Can you bring me Mcdonalds? No cigarettes please.
Jimmy - The old Hardcore Standard. :clap:
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BIRD33 Wrote:Someone once told me that the final act of growing up is forgiving ones parents which makes sense to me because they are after all only human and arent some perfect person because they are a parent.That being said a lot of my fears about having kids of my own are wrapped up in not wanting to be a burden or an inconsiderate asshole like my mother is to my sister and I to my own children.Its almost like she's leading by example meaning don't follow her example unless you want to be an ass.
I'm going to sound like a retard here, but it wasn't until I actually became a parent that I was able to forgive my parents. Sadly, that meant it was too late as they were both gone by that time. But, having kids really makes you understand why your parents did they things they did, in large part. It's like this light bulb moment where you can't hold it against them anymore.
That said, I know a lot of kids who have never felt burdened by their parents. Some parents are quite normal. Maybe you will be too.
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Jimmy Wrote:Can you bring me Mcdonalds? No cigarettes please.
It's a package deal. It's called a "one foot in the grave combo"
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Paddy Wrote:Thank God for Jimmy.
whooooosh
way over the heads of the short bus crew here, patti
too bad
rcak it, anyway
I realise that I have a past to break with--an accumulation of inertia, wrong, foolishness, rot, junk. A great need of clarification, of mindfulness, or rather, of no mind. A need to return to genuine practice, right effort. Need to push on the great doubt. Need for the spirit. Hang on to the clear light.
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Look who's still acting like a genius on insanetrain.com.
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BIRD33 will treat you like a bird with a broken wing.
cLaY Wrote:Knick-Knack Paddy's Whack, suckin' TF's Bone...
BIRD33 Wrote:You know who would be hilarious in a thread with this type of situation going on?Paddy.
BIRD33 Wrote:I was battling with the mods just like everyone else.
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I usually run them over with my car.
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I run over it twice just to make sure.
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bam Wrote:My dad has BPD (untreated). I also have BPD (treated).
And I suppose the upside (if you can find one) to having a mentally ill parent is that you are much more aware of your own mental health issues and are more likely to seek treatment for them.
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BIRD33 Wrote:Look who's still acting like a genius on insanetrain.com.
in the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king
you still dint get it, didja, tweety :ccrap:
I realise that I have a past to break with--an accumulation of inertia, wrong, foolishness, rot, junk. A great need of clarification, of mindfulness, or rather, of no mind. A need to return to genuine practice, right effort. Need to push on the great doubt. Need for the spirit. Hang on to the clear light.
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