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a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
ok last night was a real eye opener for me when it comes to meeting people off the net.... i had a really bad experience last night and thought i would share it with others especially with the women here. so it may cause second thoughts to those who are thinking or planning on meeting anyone via the net. ok so this how the story goes. i pick up the guy hes less then 5 mins away from my house thats y i was like ok ill go and hang out big mistake. we went to go watch a movie and i can tell in his eyes and the way he was trying to touch me he only had sex on his mind. i wanted the least amount of time spent with him. so i told him work had called and they needed me to cover an extra shift and i would have to cut the night short. he gets mad giving attitude and things like that so i got mad as well. and acted like i didnt give a shit i was being a total bitch as he would put it. we left the movies early cause i was pissed then went to parked infront of where he was going to be dropped off and then thats when the real drama begins. ok so hes saying to me im being a total bitch and crap like then and say for not caring he was gonna leave me stranded. so he puts my car in park and takes the keys outve ignition and wouldnt give it back then afterwards this asshole tells me to give him my purse he was planning on robbing me. when i didnt give it to him he tried to use force i opened the door and started screaming then he tried to choke me this made me scream more then he opened my door and started running keep in mind he still has my car keys. i have never been in this situation and now im pretty much thramatized so everyone if anybody here plans on meeting people off the net just keep this scenario that i explained in your minds cause they're are some real crazy nuts out. im still debating weather i should press charges against this asshole since i know how to get him. opinions please!! thanx.... also please no negative comments i am extreamly touchy and emotional about this.. theres a time to fuck around and a time not to. this is one where it shouldnt.
a real eye opener - leeman - 06-11-2004
Damn sorry to read that ...
I only have one comment....
Why haven't you gone to the police yet....????
DO THAT!!!!! NOW!!!!
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
i forgot to add i had an extra set of keys in my car so i was able to split the scene with the quickness
a real eye opener - EZEE - 06-11-2004
call the police on this fucker... I'm sure that you were not the first and unless the police get involved it won't be the last........
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
the only reason why i havent is because i dont want my father knowing what had happen and worry even more about me
a real eye opener - EZEE - 06-11-2004
I think he would be even more worried if this guy was left out in the public without anyone calling him on the shit he pulled...embaresment is what will get you killed..... seriously.... drop a dime on his ass
a real eye opener - mikeee - 06-11-2004
1: go to the police as soon has you can before he does it again to someone else.
2: you came out of this story pretty lucky in a way girl.
3: never meet poeple you don't know from the internet.
4: don't take risk like that again.
5: glad to see you on the internet today instead of the NEWS girl.
6: hope your OK.
a real eye opener - War - 06-11-2004
Always have a big guy with you.
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
Quote:Originally posted by mikeee@Jun 11 2004, 07:06 AMyea i do find myself pretty lucky and extremly tramatized i think if i didnt start screaming i mite not be here now. my screaming saved me i guess u can say. and now im never going to meet anybody off the net after this shit happening
1: go to the police as soon has you can before he does it again to someone else.
2: you came out of this story pretty lucky in a way girl.
3: never meet poeple you don't know from the internet.
4: don't take risk like that again.
5: glad to see you on the internet today instead of the NEWS girl.
6: hope your OK.
a real eye opener - Beaucephus - 06-11-2004
Good Holy Jesus. :blink: Woman you should have called the cops immediately. He now has the keys to your car and god knows the keys to what else. You need to get locks changed. He needs to be in jail. :|
a real eye opener - Devious - 06-11-2004
Quote:Originally posted by EZEE@Jun 11 2004, 10:48 AMDitto.
call the police on this fucker... I'm sure that you were not the first and unless the police get involved it won't be the last........
Noi, If you don't do something this guy is just going to strike again and the next person might not be so lucky. You have to go to the police!! Don't worry About what your dad is going to think of you. I'm sure he will be happy you're okay.You have to do something.Don't Sleep on it. Do it now..
Second, Tell your guy friends so they can go after this fucker and put a beaten on him.
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
Quote:Originally posted by Beaucephus@Jun 11 2004, 07:24 AMhe just has the keys to my car it was my spare set nothing else was on it
Good Holy Jesus. :blink: Woman you should have called the cops immediately. He now has the keys to your car and god knows the keys to what else. You need to get locks changed. He needs to be in jail. :|
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
im tooo chicken shit and scared to call police. i keep thinking if i do he might get his friends to go after me or look for me cause he knows the street i live on. just the street though. but im really scared that he might do that. and it might bring more danger to me and my dad
a real eye opener - leeman - 06-11-2004
Quote:Originally posted by lovelynoi@Jun 11 2004, 04:43 PMGod damn it Noi ...
im tooo chicken shit and scared to call police
Ask your father then.
a real eye opener - TomFoolery - 06-11-2004
If you posted this story only as a resource for other women to watch out for assholes then I understand; however, I think you posted it to ask advice and releive some stress. If you were in fact asking for advice then why not listen to the consensus? If you think you and your pops would be in danger (either now or after you contact the police), get a restraining order...that's what they are for--protection of you and your loved ones.
a real eye opener - lovelynoi - 06-11-2004
Quote:Originally posted by TomFoolery_420@Jun 11 2004, 08:01 AMi did it for both reasons but mostly to warn women or even men bout meeting people via the net cause some shit could happen just like what i encountered last night.
If you posted this story only as a resource for other women to watch out for assholes then I understand; however, I think you posted it to ask advice and releive some stress. If you were in fact asking for advice then why not listen to the consensus? If you think you and your pops would be in danger (either now or after you contact the police), get a restraining order...that's what they are for--protection of you and your loved ones.
a real eye opener - bdic - 06-11-2004
Believe it or not--this is a serious response:
Don't trust people you 'meet' on the internet. They're not who you think they are. If this really happened---you have your learning experience. If you do it again--you're a bigger idiot than I ever thought you were.
STOP THINKING THAT PEOPLE YOU MEET ON THE INTERNET ARE YOUR FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
a real eye opener - Sizzlez - 06-11-2004
Noi, here's a girl's response:
If that happened to me, I would have called the police immediately! I too have a Dad that would be very upset with me, that I met someone over the net. Since he told me I should never do that anywayz. But remember: it's better safe than sorry.
Since you have not contacted the police yet, you should do so asap and press charges. Yes he may have the keys to your car only, but he could get into and drive off in it. Since he knows the street you live on. Unless you park in a garage, but still. Take care of this soon, it'll all be worth it in the end.
Btw, you shouldn't be the one that's embarrased - he should be! What a psycho.
a real eye opener - leucetios - 06-11-2004
Glad you made it out of that situation ok Noi. to add my two cents to this I do think you should call the police. And if you ever do plan to meet someone off the net again 1) don't pick them up, they wanna hang with you they can get there on their own, 2) meet them in a public place with friends of yours. There's more advice I could give, but I am lazy. Just glad you're still alive.
a real eye opener - xoxmelxox - 06-11-2004
Dang girl, You should definitely call the cops on this jerk for real cuz he'll just do it to someone else. I'm sorry that happened to you but i'm also glad you're okay. I've met guys off the net before also and i mean i've been lucky so far, never abused or anything like that. I had one guy walk me to this heavily wooded area and then stopped and said to me "how do u know i dont have friends waiting in those bushes to jump u and kill u?" I was like well i hope i could trust you but if you do then i guess bring them on cuz they're gonna do it anyway lol. Then he's like no i'd never do that then he gave me a hug and all of a sudden said how do u know i'm not gonna wrap a wire around your neck and strangle you? he'd say things like that constantly and said he was only teaching me a lesson on not being so trusting toward everyone but it was still weird. I dont talk to him anymore but your situation did make me think