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Question - fem - 04-22-2005

SanDog Wrote:If I am cheating, I figure that you might be too. Makes me insecure. "If I can do it, so can she, so I gotta watch her like a hawk."

Damn!

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

Fairiedust Wrote:Insecurity comes from a previous bad relationship....been cheated on or lied to before...

He's been cheated on before and one of his family members cheated on someone. He also says that he gets insecure cause I am so pretty.

Question - NappyDude - 04-22-2005

Beaucephus Wrote:Die immediately :|


MMMM the crap hole is you beastiei boy! bum rush to meet the BOING! ass to face, ass to face!

Question - Tribal Dragon - 04-22-2005

fem Wrote:He's been cheated on before and one of his family members cheated on someone. He also says that he gets insecure cause I am so pretty.
Smokescreen. He's not working late, he's plugging a coworker at a seedy motel.

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

Tribal Dragon Wrote:Smokescreen. He's not working late, he's plugging a coworker at a seedy motel.

Shush!

Question - Tribal Dragon - 04-22-2005

fem Wrote:Shush!
Trust me.
Been there, done that.

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

Tribal Dragon Wrote:Trust me.
Been there, done that.

Trust me, he works with no girls (no he's not gay) and I call him every night when he closes, he's always home right on time.

Question - Tribal Dragon - 04-22-2005

fem Wrote:Trust me, he works with no girls (no he's not gay) and I call him every night when he closes, he's always home right on time.
Keep repeating that to yourself. I'd hire a PI if I were you to rat out the little weasel.

Question - NappyDude - 04-22-2005

this someone would be tinkle in his thraot!

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

Tribal Dragon Wrote:Keep repeating that to yourself. I'd hire a PI if I were you to rat out the little weasel.

I have no reason to. Why are you trying to convince me that my boyfriend is cheating on me?

I'll call Cheaters if I suspect anything. Smile

Question - Banana - 04-22-2005

Tribal Dragon Wrote:Keep repeating that to yourself. I'd hire a PI if I were you to rat out the little weasel.
I disagree. If you think your SO is cheating on you, the trust is gone and you need to leave. What happens if you find nothing? Now you're an ass who doesn't deserve the other person. If you don't trust him/her, leave him/her.

Question - Tribal Dragon - 04-22-2005

Banana Wrote:I disagree. If you think your SO is cheating on you, the trust is gone and you need to leave. What happens if you find nothing? Now you're an ass who doesn't deserve the other person. If you don't trust him/her, leave him/her.
Come on Psych major, you need to pipe up louder and tell us what the boyfriend is thinking......

Question - paybacksare - 04-22-2005

I always find it interesting when women say they have more male friends than female friends and that they can't be friends with women because we're all backstabbing bitches. Either you're hanging out with the complete wrong group of "friends" or you might be the backstabbing bitch yourself if you find you can't trust your girl-friends.

I do have male friends, although my closest confidantes are female. My boyfriend would not have a problem with me going out with any friends because he knows he can trust me. I trust him too. It's kind of a non-issue. Sure, we can have silly little bouts of jealousy and insecurity at times, but if you don't trust your partner and don't get that same kind of respect from them in return, it's going to be a bumpy ride....

There are ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends that I think both of us would get a little bent out of shape if we started hanging around with again, however. So we don't. That's where the respect and trust issue comes in again too.

Nevermind, I bet fem isn't even reading this. It's too long.

Question - Tribal Dragon - 04-22-2005

paybacksare Wrote:I always find it interesting when women say they have more male friends than female friends and that they can't be friends with women because we're all backstabbing bitches. Either you're hanging out with the complete wrong group of "friends" or you might be the backstabbing bitch yourself if you find you can't trust your girl-friends.

I do have male friends, although my closest confidantes are female. My boyfriend would not have a problem with me going out with any friends because he knows he can trust me. I trust him too. It's kind of a non-issue. Sure, we can have silly little bouts of jealousy and insecurity at times, but if you don't trust your partner and don't get that same kind of respect from them in return, it's going to be a bumpy ride....

There are ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends that I think both of us would get a little bent out of shape if we started hanging around with again, however. So we don't. That's where the respect and trust issue comes in again too.

Nevermind, I bet fem isn't even reading this. It's too long.
Rack!

Question - NappyDude - 04-22-2005

paybacksare Wrote:Nevermind, I bet fem isn't even reading this. It's too long.


That be so RACK!@

Question - Banana - 04-22-2005

Tribal Dragon Wrote:Come on Psych major, you need to pipe up louder and tell us what the boyfriend is thinking......
I only read the last page :$ .....ok, read it all. He's just insecure, plain and simple. I highly doubt he's cheating. However, he does feel like he has something to lose and he's probably immature.....rather than saying "I have some insecurities and I don't want them to get in the way of this relationship, but I need you to know it bothers me when you hang out with other men" he's chosen to shift the blame and point the finger at fem. It's his issue and his problem.

Fem, if you love this guy, try to work on it with him. But, don't be held hostage to his insecurities forever. It is not your fault he doesn't trust you.

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

paybacksare Wrote:Nevermind, I bet fem isn't even reading this. It's too long.

RACK!

Question - fem - 04-22-2005

Banana Wrote:I only read the last page :$ .....ok, read it all. He's just insecure, plain and simple. I highly doubt he's cheating. However, he does feel like he has something to lose and he's probably immature.....rather than saying "I have some insecurities and I don't want them to get in the way of this relationship, but I need you to know it bothers me when you hang out with other men" he's chosen to shift the blame and point the finger at fem. It's his issue and his problem.

Fem, if you love this guy, try to work on it with him. But, don't be held hostage to his insecurities forever. It is not your fault he doesn't trust you.

I'm the one who knows the reasons behind his insecurities, so I understand why he is.
We are slowly but surely working on it, thanks banana. Smile

Question - Charon - 04-22-2005

fem Wrote:Trust me, he works with no girls (no he's not gay) and I call him every night when he closes, he's always home right on time.
"Thank you Come again "
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Question - fem - 04-22-2005

E-Judge Wrote:"Thank you Come again "
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I would think there would be atleast 1 girl working at a fast food joint.